When you look good, you feel good! Why deny it? Explore your individuality. Share your exuberance. Surround yourself with people who really appreciate you. Don’t let people who judge you bring you down.
You are happiest when you are learning something new. You should always be reading a book, taking a class, studying a new language or getting a new hobby. When you keep the soft focus on yourself, you keep the harsh focus off those around you. Everyone wins.
You’re happiest when you’re active. Always make time to get physical – go to the gym, walk to work, or join a recreational sports league. Be a little selfish with your time; the time you take for youself will make the majority you spend with others much more enjoyable for all involved!
You’re one of the only people who actually CAN live for others. And you want to! What would the rest of us do without you? Do for others what they can’t do for themselves. But don’t overdo it. Learn to tell when your help is actually needed to avoid burn out and self-pity.