When life brings you a good opportunity do you immediately think about the person you want to share it with? Do you feel a compulsion to update those close to you with breaking news of your life — particularly one or two people? Does your phone so often call the same number that you can practically dial it using nothing but thought-waves?
Do you care deeply for others and find yourself service oriented, determined to make others happy? Are you an excellent listener, very good at reading people and find that your friends and family tend to rely on you for much more than just advice? Well, then you can call yourself a Nurturer!
Does connecting with people while you’re out and about on your daily routine give you an energy boost that rivals a can of Red Bull? When you make cashiers smile and baristas bat their eyes, do you feel a winner’s rush? Are you compelled to share a little laughter with just about anyone who seems open to it? If so, it’s likely you are a Flirt.
Do you say “yes” when you mean “no,” try to help the unhelpable and neglect your own needs to serve people who take you for granted? Do you so intensely crave love that it feels like you’d do anything to get it? Do you secretly like when people need you – like, a lot – because it’s evidence of your worth? If so, you might be a Codependent.
Do you ever wonder if you’ve been cursed? Do you find yourself frequently getting knocked off kilter emotionally or being physically hurt in seemingly random events? Do bad people mess with you like a predator toys with prey? Do you feel like you’ve grown accustomed to being miserable? Then you just may be a Victim.
Do you love falling in love, so much so that you do it all the time? When you hear love songs, do you ache because it feels like they were written just for your situation? High tolerance for chick flicks, even if you’re a guy? Do you believe that love conquers all and that some people are just meant to be together? Is Valentine’s Day your favorite? If so, hello, Lover.
Under the radar? Do you meet the same people over and over who don’t remember meeting you the first time? Do you seem to go unnoticed no matter what you do? Do you feel like it’s totally fine if people don’t respond to you? Are you unsung? Then hello, Invisible.